Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Emotional Cheating Gives Way To Physical Cheating, Says Relationship Coach (VIDEO)

HuffPost Live tackled the touchy subject of emotional infidelity late last week, and relationship coach Yvonne Chase stopped by to share her experience.

She explains that she met a married man at the bank, and though their relationship started off with emotional infidelity, he soon wanted more.

"He said to me, 'You're so much fun to be with, you're so much fun to talk to, I can share things with you that I can't share with my wife,' and he wasn't sharing anything deep with me, he was just sharing plans for the future, ideas he had about business," Chase said. "But the fact that he could talk to someone and feel heard... and that it was easier for him to have these conversations with me versus do the heavy lifting... and address his marriage, seek counseling and fix that. He wasn't interested in doing that, he wanted to continue having conversations with me and then he wanted to take it physical."

Watch the video above to hear what Chase said to the married man (and check out the full segment here), then click through the slideshow below for what celebrities have said about infidelity.

  • Sandra Bullock

    Sandra Bullock was married to Jesse James for five years before it was revealed that he reportedly had an <a href="http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2010/03/jesse-james-cheating-on-sandra-bullock-michelle-mcgee/" target="_blank">affair with tattoo model Michelle "Bombshell" McGee</a>. Bullock spoke out about how the scandal and divorce affected her, <a href="http://hollywoodlife.com/2011/12/27/sandra-bullock-opens-up-jesse-james-scandal-cheating-interview-ap-press/" target="_blank">saying</a>, "I was perfectly content to be permanently broken."

  • Dita Von Teese

    Burlesque star Dita Von Teese was married to shock rocker Marilyn Manson for just over a year before she <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20005731,00.html" target="_blank">filed for divorce in January 2007</a>. Von Teese moved out on <a href="http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2007/04/dita-von-teese-on-love-marilyn-manson-nudity-etc/" target="_blank">Christmas Eve amid allegations</a> that Manson was having an affair with Evan Rachel Wood, then 19 years old. "I left with nothing. I knew that there was an inappropriate relationship going on in [my home], and I didn't want any part of it around to remind me," <a href="http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2007/04/dita-von-teese-on-love-marilyn-manson-nudity-etc/" target="_blank">she said</a>. "I didn't want that sofa. I didn't want that bed."

  • Eva Longoria

    Eva Longoria <a href="http://www.tmz.com/2010/11/16/eva-longoria-tony-parker-divorce-san-antonio-spurs-desperate-housewives/" target="_blank">filed for divorce</a> from husband Tony Parker in November 2010, after finding out that he reportedly <a href="http://www.showbizspy.com/article/218804/tony-parker-cheated-on-eva-longoria-with-former-teammate-brent-barrys-wife-report.html" target="_blank">cheated on her</a> with the wife of his former teammate. "It wasn't about who he chose. I had moments of like: 'Okay, I'm not sexy enough? I'm not pretty enough? Am I not smart enough?' Then I immediately stopped," <a href="http://www.inquisitr.com/235531/eva-longoria-tony-parker-cheating-divorce/" target="_blank">she said</a>. "'No, no, no -- don't start doing that.' Because you can get stuck in that cycle and you can carry that onto other things."

  • Sienna Miller

    Sienna Miller was <a href="http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/0,,20143950,00.html" target="_blank">engaged to Jude Law</a> when it was revealed that he had cheated on her with his children's nanny. Miller has spoken out about the affair and how it affected her perception of love. "What makes me sad [is] that there was a loss of innocence on my part," <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20010446,00.html" target="_blank">she said</a>. "I was blinded by being a romantic person. I sort of feel like, 'What if I never love that vulnerably and that openly again?' But I feel like I'm really strong. I feel like I grew up."

  • Sophia Bush

    Sophia Bush and Chad Michael Murray were <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1109973,00.html" target="_blank">married for only five months</a> before separating amidst allegations that he was <a href="http://www.thefrisky.com/photos/10-celebrity-cheatin-triangles/cheating-triangles-g10-jpg/" target="_blank">cheating with Paris Hilton</a>. "I can't say there are no hard feelings... I feel hurt, humiliated and broken-hearted," <a href="http://www.hollywood.com/news/celebrities/3473892/sophia-bush-speaks-out-about-chad-michael-murray-split?page=all" target="_blank">she said</a>.

  • Usher

    Usher has been accused of cheating several times in his career, both on his <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/25/tameka-raymond-ushers-ex-wife-cheating-rumors_n_1914415.html" target="_blank">ex-wife, Tameka Raymond</a>, and <a href="http://www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/w0007421.html" target="_blank">former girlfriend, Rozonda "Chilli" Thomas</a>. "I was faithful at heart, but not faithful all the way," <a href="http://www.bet.com/celebrities/photos/word/2012/09/celebrity-quotes-of-the-week-september-21-2012.html#!091912-celebrities-word-usher-oprah-winfrey-show" target="_blank">he said</a> of his relationship with Chilli.

  • Kristen Stewart

    Kristen Stewart made headlines when photographs surfaced of her <a href="http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/kristen-stewart-cheats-on-robert-pattinson-with-rupert-sanders-see-all-of-the-shocking-pics-from-their-fling-2012307" target="_blank">kissing married director</a> Rupert Sanders. Stewart, who was dating Robert Pattinson at the time, issued a public apology for the affair. "This momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry," <a href="http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/robert-pattinson-kristen-stewart-cosmopolis-daily-show-361619" target="_blank">she said</a>. Sanders and his wife of 10 years, Liberty Ross, <a href="http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/liberty-ross-asks-rupert-sanders-for-a-divorce-what-went-wrong-2013291" target="_hplink">split six months</a> after Sanders' affair with Stewart was revealed.

  • Whoopi Goldberg

    Whoopi Goldberg has been <a href="http://www.starpulse.com/news/index.php/2010/02/18/whoopi_goldberg_rules_out_marriage_" target="_blank">married three times</a>, but told her cohosts on The View that she has cheated while being married multiple times. "I did it five or six times? Yes, I screwed around while I was married, yeah. I made mistakes too. It happens sometimes," <a href="http://perezhilton.com/2010-04-05-whoopi-goldberg-admits-to-cheating-while-married#.UcttxD46V9V" target="_blank">she said</a>.

  • Meg Ryan

    There is speculation that Meg Ryan and Dennis Quaid divorced because she had an <a href="http://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2012/12/the-10-most-infamous-love-triangles-in-hollywood-history/meg-ryan-dennis-quaid-russell-crowe" target="_blank">affair with Russell Crowe</a>, but Ryan has also gone on record to assert that her husband was unfaithful as well. "Dennis was not faithful to me for a very long time, and that was very painful. I found out more about that after I was divorced," <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1060717/Dennis-Quaid-hits-ex-wife-Meg-Ryan-claims-cheated-HER-marriage.html" target="_blank">she said</a>.

  • Tiger Woods

    Tiger Woods became the center of a very public <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/08/24/rachel-uchitel-tiger-woods_n_692729.html" target="_blank">cheating scandal</a> when it was revealed that he had cheated on his wife, Elin Nordegren, with multiple women. The numerous affairs led to a <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20414961,00.html" target="_blank">divorce</a>. Woods spoke out about why he strayed, <a href="http://xfinity.comcast.net/slideshow/entertainment-sadcelebapologies/6/" target="_blank">saying</a>, "I felt I had worked hard my entire life and deserved to enjoy all the temptations around me. I was unfaithful. I had affairs. I cheated."

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Uber intros fare splitting for cost-conscious ridesharers

Uber brings fare splitting to its mobile apps

Few party-goers look forward to the math involved with paying for a shared cab ride home. Now that Uber supports fare splitting, they won't have to: the company's updated Android and iOS apps let passengers divide the cost equally. While friends must be Uber members to chip in, they only have to give their permission if someone has already hailed a car. The new apps won't necessarily get cheapskate friends to pay up, but they could avoid a few headaches at the end of a long night.

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Rabbi accused of road rage, impersonating a cop

By Jim Fitzgerald, NBC New York

Some drivers in Westchester County were startled when they saw a man waving his arms, honking his horn and flashing a silver badge in a frantic effort to get them to pull over in traffic.

Even more surprising was the person suspected of doing it: a respected rabbi.

Rabbi Alfredo Borodowski has been arrested in one case and is being investigated in at least two more in which authorities say the apparent reason for trying to pull people over was to rage at them for cutting him off or driving too slowly.

"That girl was driving too slow, and I hate when people do this," the 49-year-old Borodowski told investigators after he was charged with impersonating a police officer in June, when he allegedly pulled his Camry alongside a woman's car in Mamaroneck, flashed a badge and shouted: "Police! Police! Pull over!"

The woman, whose name has not been made public, did not pull over. According to her lawyer, Richard Clifford, the rabbi "just laid on the horn and started screaming at her" as she obeyed a 20-mph limit in a school zone. "She was so freaked out with the horn honking and the screaming that she called police immediately. ... I believe my client was in danger with this guy and if she had gotten out of her car it could have escalated."

Borodowski denied to police he was trying to impersonate an officer, saying he was telling the woman only that he would be "calling the police."

Police confiscated the badge, which read: "Triborough Bridge and Tunnel Authority Officer 1338." Judie Glave, a spokeswoman for the Metropolitan Transportation Authority, which oversees the bridge and tunnel authority, said the badge is "totally fake."

Borodowski's lawyer, Andrew Rubin, acknowledged that the rabbi's behavior has been "manic" and said he's suffering from bipolar disorder. The lawyer said the rabbi will plead not guilty in court this week. A previous hearing was postponed because the rabbi was hospitalized.

The rabbi has been fired from a position at prestigious Temple Emanu-El in Manhattan, one of the world's largest Jewish houses of worship. He also leads a congregation in Larchmont.

The odd saga of the rabbi has grabbed headlines and gained momentum after his arrest, when other drivers came forward saying he had tried to pull them over, too.

When Peter Moses' wife saw the story on the TV news, "She shouted, 'Oh my God, the guy who stopped us did it to someone else ? and he's a rabbi!'" said Moses, a public relations consultant in White Plains.

Moses said that in May, a motorist tailgated him on a drive from Scarsdale to White Plains, "obviously trying to make me go faster" than the 40-mph limit. Instead, Moses slowed, and the driver passed him and then blocked his path.

"He's shouting, 'I'm a police officer, pull over!' and he's got this little badge that he's waving at us. I told my wife, 'That's not a police officer,'" Moses said.

"Then he's out of his car and he's screaming: 'I can arrest you! I can have you arrested!' I said, 'Fine, call the police,' then he storms back to his car and drives off."

Moses said his wife asked him not to report the incident but changed her mind when they learned of the arrest in Mamaroneck.

"What we want is for the rabbi to get the emotional help he so obviously needs," he said.

Yet another driver handed State Police a video of a confrontation in late April on Interstate 87 near Yonkers. The man told authorities that he swerved in front of a driver who then flashed a badge and demanded that he pull over.

Police are not releasing the video, but a still image from it obtained by The Journal News shows a man who looks like Borodowski sticking his head out of his car window, his wispy graying hair blowing in the wind, who appears to be shouting and waving a silver badge in a leather case.

"He was holding up this tiny badge, and I knew the guy could no way be a cop in any sense of the word," the driver, whose name has not been made public, told the newspaper. When he challenged the man, he drove off.

The three complaints prompted the trustees of Temple Emanu-El to dismiss Borodowski as executive director of the Skirball Center for Jewish Learning "in the best interests of the congregation," said Mark Weisstuch, administrative vice president.

Borodowski was still listed as rabbi on the website for Congregation Sulam Yaakov in Larchmont. A call to the synagogue there was answered by a man who said: "No comment. That's his personal life."

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Sunday, July 7, 2013

NBA:(Photo) WOW! Warriors Sign Andre Iguodala, Does That Mean No Dwight Howard?

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The Warriors are going to be a very serious team next season, with or without Dwight Howard. They just signed free agent Andre Iguodala to a 4 year/$48 million dollar contract. Iguodala is a very good player and a deep Warriors team just got deeper. They already have Steph Curry, Harrison Barnes, Klay Thompson and Andrew Bogut. Added Iguodala they now have another certified all-star calibur player. Hit the jump to see more.

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The Warriors were feeling very good about their chances to get Dwight Howard. Now thay they just gave Iguodala $48 million, it might be a wrap for them getting Howard. But for a team that made a run last season and gave the Spurs a very serious test in the Western confernce semi-finals last year, this move alone makes them a real contender out there. I am very surprised Denver was so willing to let Iguodala go, considering they also had a very good team that could of went deep in the playoffs next year as well. He is a hard worker and he deserves this contract. Wonder what Dwight is thinking now.

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Pope Francis clears John Paul II for sainthood

FILE - In this Jan. 25, 1959 file photo, Pope John XXIII blesses spectators as he is carried on a portable throne to St. Paul's Basilica in Rome, outside the Vatican walls. Pope Francis on Friday, July 5, 2013 cleared Pope John Paul II for sainthood, setting up a remarkable dual canonization along with Pope John XXIII. (AP Photo)

FILE - In this Jan. 25, 1959 file photo, Pope John XXIII blesses spectators as he is carried on a portable throne to St. Paul's Basilica in Rome, outside the Vatican walls. Pope Francis on Friday, July 5, 2013 cleared Pope John Paul II for sainthood, setting up a remarkable dual canonization along with Pope John XXIII. (AP Photo)

Copies of the Pope Francis' Lumen Fidei encyclical letter in several languages are shown in occasion of a press conference for its presentation at the Vatican, Friday, July 5, 2013. Pope Francis issued his first encyclical Friday, a meditation on faith that is unique because it was written with someone else: Benedict XVI. Benedict's hand is evident throughout much of the first three chapters of "The Light of Faith," with his theological style, concerns and reference points clear. (AP Photo/Riccardo De Luca)

A copy of the Pope Francis' Lumen Fidei encyclical is seen during a press conference for its presentation at the Vatican, Friday, July 5, 2013. Pope Francis issued his first encyclical Friday, a meditation on faith that is unique because it was written with someone else: Benedict XVI. Benedict's hand is evident throughout much of the first three chapters of "The Light of Faith," with his theological style, concerns and reference points clear. (AP Photo/Riccardo De Luca)

Cardinal Marc Ouellet shows a copy of the Pope Francis' Lumen Fidei encyclical letter prior to the start of a press conference for its presentation at the Vatican, Friday, July 5, 2013. Pope Francis issued his first encyclical Friday, a meditation on faith that is unique because it was written with someone else: Benedict XVI. Benedict's hand is evident throughout much of the first three chapters of "The Light of Faith," with his theological style, concerns and reference points clear. (AP Photo/Riccardo De Luca)

(AP) ? Pope Francis on Friday cleared Pope John Paul II for sainthood, approving a miracle attributed to his intercession and setting up a remarkable dual canonization along with another beloved pope, John XXIII.

In a major demonstration of his papal authority, Francis decided to make John XXIII a saint even though the Vatican hasn't confirmed a second miracle attributed to his intercession. The Vatican said Francis had the power to dispense with the normal saint-making procedures to canonize John on his own merits.

To anyone who has been paying attention, Francis' decision to canonize both should come as no surprise: He was made a cardinal by John Paul and is very much a pope of the Second Vatican Council, the ground-breaking church meetings that brought the Catholic Church into the modern world which John XXIII opened a year before his death in 1963.

The council opened the church to people of other faiths and allowed for Mass to be celebrated in the languages of the faithful, rather than Latin.

John Paul, who was pope from 1978-2005, revolutionized the papacy, traveling the world and inspiring a generation of young Catholics to be excited about their faith. He was the first Polish pope and the first non-Italian in 455 years ? a legacy that continued with the German-born Benedict XVI and Francis.

On the anniversary of John Paul's death this year, Francis prayed at the tombs of both John Paul and John XXIII ? an indication that he sees a great personal and spiritual continuity in them.

Benedict spent much of his pontificate trying to correct what he considered wrong interpretations of Vatican II, insisting it wasn't the break from the past that liberals believed.

While not disagreeing outright with Benedict, Francis seems to take a more progressive read of Vatican II and its call to go out into the world and spread the faith ? a priority he has shown in the first months of his pontificate.

The canonization ceremony is expected before the end of the year.

Polish media on Friday continued to press for an October canonization, to mark the 35th anniversary of John Paul's 1978 election, but Vatican officials have said that's too soon to organize such a massive event. Dec. 8, the feast of the Immaculate Conception, a major feast day for the church, has also been floated as a possibility.

The canonization nnouncement came shortly after the release of Francis' first encyclical, a meditation on faith that is unique because it was written with someone else: Benedict XVI.

Benedict's hand is evident throughout much of the first three chapters of "The Light of Faith," with his theological style, concerns and reference points clear.

Francis' priorities come through strongest in the final chapter, where the Argentine Jesuit insists on the role of faith in serving the common good and giving hope to those who suffer. It includes his first clear statement as pope on marriage being a union between man and woman with the aim of creating children.

The encyclical didn't appear to break new ground in church teaching; its novelty was entirely in the dual authorship, and that it was the first of Francis' nascent pontificate.

The Vatican spokesman, the Rev. Federico Lombardi, confirmed that the miracle that brought John Paul to the ranks of sainthood concerned a Costa Rican woman.

The Spanish newspaper La Razon has identified her as Floribeth Mora, and said she suffered from a cerebral aneurism that was inexplicably cured on May 1, 2011 ? the day of John Paul's beatification, when 1.5 million people filled St. Peter's Square to honor the beloved Polish pontiff.

La Razon reported last month that Mora awoke with debilitating head pain on April 8 and went to the hospital, where her condition worsened to the point that she was sent home with only a month to live.

Her family prayed to John Paul, and the aneurism disappeared.

La Razon quoted her doctor, Dr. Alejandro Vargas, as saying: "It surprised me a lot that the aneurism disappeared, I can't explain it based on science."

The Associated Press has traveled to Mora's home in Costa Rica but has been told that she is bound by secrecy and cannot discuss her case.

The Vatican's complicated saint-making procedure requires that the Vatican certify a "miracle" was performed through the intercession of the candidate ? a medically inexplicable cure that is lasting, immediate and can be directly linked to the prayers offered by the faithful. One miracle is needed for beatification, a second for canonization.

Then-Pope Benedict XVI put John Paul on the fast track for possible sainthood when he dispensed with the traditional five-year waiting period and allowed the beatification process to begin weeks after his John Paul's death. Benedict was responding to chants of "Santo Subito!" or "Sainthood Immediately" which erupted during John Paul's funeral.

There is some concern that the process has been too quick. Some of the Holy See's deep-seated problems ? clerical sex abuse, dysfunctional governance and more recently the financial scandals at the Vatican bank ? essentially date from shortcomings of his pontificate.

Thus the decision to canonize John Paul along with John XXIII can be seen as trying to balance those concerns.

Such was the case in 2000, when John Paul beatified John XXIII, dubbed the "good pope," alongside Pope Pius IX, who was criticized by Jews for condoning the seizure of a Jewish boy and allegedly referring to Jews as dogs.

Asked how John XXIII, elected in 1958, could be canonized without a second miracle, Lombardi insisted that many theologians believe that isn't required and that a canonization can take place based on the first miracle required for beatification. He said Francis had approved a decision by the cardinals and bishops of the Vatican's saint-making office.

"Certainly the pope has the power, in a certain sense, to dispense of the second miracle in a cause, and this is what happened," Lombardi said.

He stressed that this decision didn't represent any relaxing of the Vatican's overall standards for canonization, but represented a unique situation, given that the church this year is marking the 50th anniversary of Vatican II.

"John XXIII is someone who we know is beloved in the church, we're in the 50th anniversary of the Council which he started, and I don't think any of us have any doubts about his virtues," Lombardi said.

In Poland, the reaction was overjoyed, as expected.

Rev. Kazimierz Sowa, the head of Religion TV channel, said on TVN that Poles are expected to flood to Rome for the ceremony.

"John Paul II was extremely popular during his lifetime and he still continues to inspire people," Sowa said. But he insisted that an October date was preferable, to accommodate the throngs expected at the outdoor ceremony.

"In their interest, I think we should expect the canonization in the fall," he said.

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